I was the “chubby Asian girl” in high school. (I was nicknamed FUP, standing for fat ugly pig.) Then, the summer before university, I started to go to the gym with my brother because I wanted to be hot, lol. To feel confident. The problem? I went sporadically and ate…

Don’t take advice from family, friends, or anyone who doesn’t have the career, relationship, or life you want. Why? Because they’ll give you advice based on what they think is best for you, their life experiences, and their knowledge. So, if you take their advice, you’ll end up exactly where they are. Instead, take a look at their life, and if it’s not how you want to end…

What’s your unfair advantage? Personally, I had trouble coming up with an answer when my partner asked me this the other day after I told him about my writing goals. Now, the question wasn’t meant to be discouraging. In fact, it was quite the opposite because he wanted me to…

I work 42 hours a week from Monday to Saturday at my day job. Yet every week, I write: 1 Medium article 3 LinkedIn posts 5 tweets Social media content for clients Now, this article isn’t about how I manage my time to write while working full-time. This article is…

If you’ve ever asked a writer: “What do you write about?” “How do you consistently come up with article ideas?” Then, this article is for you. Today, I dive deeply into my 3-part process to consistently come up with ideas to write about. Without further ado, let’s get started. Learning Your…

I’ve consistently created on Medium, LinkedIn, Twitter, and YouTube for 8 weeks… Which is a HUGE milestone for me! Here’s how I did it despite working full-time at a restaurant. Disclaimer: I’m not married. I don’t have children. And I don’t have pets. 1 — Figure out your non-negotiables. It’s easy to get caught up in…

When I decided that I wanted to write online to make money, the first place I looked for opportunities was Upwork. After I made my account, wrote my profile, and got approved, I started to submit proposals. And I was lucky because I got offered a job by a startup…

I’m not the only one who recognizes the benefits of going on a walk. For example, Ryan Holiday takes a walk every day. Nietzsche took long walks past rivers, forests, lakes, and Alpine peaks. And Beethoven took long walks in Vienna Woods. So, why do these successful people and I…

After I started my personal development journey, I felt like I was better than everyone else. What’s more, I wanted them to be more like me. Because I felt like my habits, values, and mentality were right. So, I often judged people when they did something I didn’t agree with…