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3 Mindset Shifts To Help You Stop Feeling Like You’re Better Than Others
After I started my personal development journey, I felt like I was better than everyone else. What’s more, I wanted them to be more like me. Because I felt like my habits, values, and mentality were right.
So, I often judged people when they did something I didn’t agree with. I judged people who smoked. Drank. Partied. Didn’t take care of their physical or mental health. Procrastinated.
And I didn’t just stop there. I also resented them because I felt like our association was bringing me down. Anchoring me to a place I didn’t want to be in. And taking time away from me from doing the things I wanted to do to make my life better.
Looking back, I completely missed the point of personal development. I mean, it’s called personal development for a reason, right?
Because it’s about your growth. Not anyone else’s. It’s about taking accountability for your own behaviour. It’s about being strict with yourself, but tolerant of others.
It means that you’re responsible for your life as they’re responsible for theirs. And as we’re all responsible for our own lives, we don’t have the right to judge or resent anyone.
So, here are 3 mindset shifts I’ve adopted to let go of my feelings of superiority over…